It's okay not to be okay

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Heartbreak, it turns out, is not just for kids. It happens to all of us at some point, and when it does, your world is blown to bits. 

Don't say you have lived enough, because you have not. 

You can only appreciate the good once you have faced the bad. When things break, we all tend to fix it before throwing it. But what if those pieces hurt you? There comes a time when you have to value yourself more than a person who is not even there. You cannot bait your life on someone who is too obsessed about seeing the bad more than the good, whose words have no value, who is too egoistic to sacrifice unnecessary actions for your mental peace. Sometimes we need to value emotions more than what's right what's not. The question of right or wrong remains, the person doesn't.

You may love your material possessions, the worldly goods, but there will be a time when the world will stop loving you. Learn to value love over likes. You are a fool if you disregard people who genuinely cared or wanted the good for you.

Accept only those who are willing to work upon themselves, striving to rise over their shortcomings.

And when things go rough, don't fight it. Grieve it. Then heal it. You're a human with a heart, which is rare in today's world.

It's okay to open up about breaking down





Comments

  1. Barsha Sarma7 January 2020 at 14:45

    Loved it.. So relatable... Self love is the most purest form of love.. Thnks for making me realise that

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    1. Darshana Saikia7 January 2020 at 14:51

      Thank you so much dear. Means a great deal to me ♥️♥️

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  2. Unknown7 January 2020 at 15:12

    Just awesome 😌

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  3. The Barca7 January 2020 at 15:18

    Woow amazing (relatable one) 😊 really awesome writing.

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  4. Unknown7 January 2020 at 16:13

    Self realisation is the most important think we do need in life.We have a rare thing in this world i.e. 'heart' , my favorite part. I really love to read this..best wishes for you...want many more from you.

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    1. Darshana Saikia7 January 2020 at 16:19

      Thank you so much for your kind words. Thanks a lot 🙏🙏😊

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  5. Unknown7 January 2020 at 16:22

    Absolutely Multitalented Darsh..... Im wondering how these words comes out from you
    #Rizwan_here

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    1. Darshana Saikia7 January 2020 at 16:32

      Hehe. Thank you so much Rizzz!! I'm truly honoured 😄😄😊

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  6. Unknown7 January 2020 at 18:54

    Absolutely correct. So much relatable ♥️

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  7. Unknown8 January 2020 at 14:33

    Your writing inspires me. Look forward to more like this.
    All the love🔥

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  8. Hemanta rajbongshi13 January 2020 at 10:09

    Wow! Its really wonderful and nice....

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  9. Cosmic Being23 February 2020 at 21:12

    Accepting the pain is the hardest thing.....bt the healing wounds can turn into beautiful scars ....n those scars can b worn as jewels to show the struggle we overcame💕 love this piece of ur work

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  10. Liza24 February 2020 at 12:58

    I absolutely agree with you. Your blog is wonderful :)

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  11. Darshana Saikia11 March 2020 at 12:03

    Thanks Anastaisha for taking out the time to read it ❤️

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